I personally wouldn’t remind my spouse of what has been purchased in the past. Just put it behind you and enjoy the widescreen. You should focus on the present (lunches, fantasy football) and address the waste of money it creates. Not to make it sound like it’s entirely his wrongdoing, mention something you’ll cutting back/eliminating so its sounds more like a joint effort from the two of you.
In a previous post, I liked the mention of paying off one debt, and then moving on and paying off the second one, etc. In July 05 I’ll be making my last car payment, and I already have the money earmarked in Aug. to agressively start paying off the first card. Good luck to you, and just stay focused!